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Home : Remembering Patty Siegel - The Heart of R&R

Remembering Patty Siegel - The Heart of R&R

The California Child Care Resource & Referral Network is hosting Memories and Metaphors – An Evening of Remembering and Celebrating the Life of Patty Siegel.  This evening of celebrating and honoring Patty for her work in the child care field and her steadfast commitment to children, families, and child care providers will occur at the DoubleTree Hotel in Sacramento on Thursday, April 21st.  The evening will include a reception from 5:00 to 6:30 followed by a dinner from 6:30 – 10:00 p.m.  For more information about and to register for this evening, please click on the following link http://www.rsvpbook.com/CelebratingPatty.

For questions, please contact Cindy Mall, 415-494-4642, cindy@rrnetwork.org.

 

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 It is with great sadness that we announce that Patty Siegel, founder and executive director of the California Child Care Resource & Referral Network (Network) from 1980 through 2011 passed away on December 25, 2015.

Patty was a tireless leader and passionate advocate for children, families, and child care providers in California and nationally.  Since 1970, she had been actively involved in the development and delivery of child care services, combining perspectives as a teacher, as a parent-organizer, and as the founding director of one of the nation's first child care resource and referral agencies, the Childcare Switchboard in San Francisco, which is now the Children’s Council San Francisco.

Her career in child care began in the early 70’s when Patty and her husband Sandy had three small children, Toby, Tara, and Kelsey.  Patty’s family, along with 11 other families, came together to form the Yellow Garage playgroup in San Francisco.  Within two months of its opening, the Yellow Garage had a waiting list of more than 20 parents.  At about that same time, the Rosenberg Foundation funded a study to look at the social service needs of young families in San Francisco.  What the survey found was that families expressed a need for a “childcare switchboard” where parents could call to learn about their child care options.  In 1972, the Rosenberg Foundation made a small grant to start up the Childcare Switchboard and Patty was one of the original staff members.  And thus her journey in R&R was underway.

A few years later, shortly after being inaugurated in 1975, Governor Jerry Brown vetoed legislation which would have expanded child care funding in the Department of Education by $10 million.  In his veto message, he pledged to make an equal amount of funds available for an “alternative child care program” intended to expand parental choice, address geographic equity in the distribution of child care funds and services for low-income families, and test cost-effective models of providing service.

At about that same time, the Child Care Switchboard under Patty’s leadership and BANANAS R&R were involved in a dispute with the state over the limited child care options available to families as a result of county interpretations of state licensing regulations for family child care homes.  Providers that did not speak English or were not married were denied child care licenses.  Seeking a remedy to the injustice of this situation, parents and R&Rs were represented by the Employment Law Center in San Francisco which filed a lawsuit to remove the discriminatory licensing practices.  In the course of the negotiations with the State of California, the plaintiffs caught the attention of one of Jerry Brown’s cabinet members who recognized that the issues in dispute seemed to apply to “alternative child care.”

It wasn’t long before the Governor’s office invited the attorneys and plaintiffs of the lawsuit to discuss how to achieve the objectives set forth in his alternative child care proposal.  At that meeting, Patty Siegel, and Arlyce Currie from BANANAS, made the case for child care information and referral services arguing that parental choice could not be addressed without providing parents with information about their child care choices.  This meeting formed the basis for AB 3059.  AB 3059 provided $900,000 out of the $10 million of Alternative Child Care Program funds for child care information and referral services.  With this initial state funding, 11 R&R agencies were funded.  After two more pieces of legislation were passed, one sponsored by the Network, R&R services were available in every county in California. 

As more and more state-funded R&Rs came into existence, the need for a coordinating entity that could provide support, technical assistance and training to the local R&Rs became apparent and in 1980 Patty founded the California Child Care Resource & Referral Network.  In her role as Executive Director of the Network, Patty was an active participant in shaping state and federal policy for children and families.  Patty valued the importance of data and research as a key part of advocacy and planning; she spearheaded the creation of the California Child Care Portfolio documenting the supply and demand of child care statewide and county by county. The report is now in its 10th edition. She was instrumental in creating the Child Care Initiative Project (CCIP), a statewide public-private partnership to expand the supply of licensed quality child care by recruiting and training new family child care providers, with special emphasis on infants and toddlers and Spanish speaking communities.  She inspired and guided the development of Parent Voices, a grassroots parent-led, effort to engage and empower parents to actively and successfully participate in the policy process.  She was also involved in the expansion and implementation of TrustLine, California’s registry of license-exempt caregivers.  All three of these programs, CCIP, Parent Voices, and TrustLine continue to be active and thriving programs at the Network today.

Beyond her role at the Network, Patty was actively involved with a wide variety of state and national organizations and foundations committed to quality child care.  She was integral to the establishment of the National Association of Child Care Resource and Referral Agencies (NACCRRA) now named Child Care Aware of America.  She also served as one of the original state commissioners for the California Children and Families First Commission (First Five), represented California in the Children’s Defense Fund state child care advocates network, and had the honor of being invited by the Clinton administration to the White House to speak.

Patty was a voice at policy tables locally, statewide, and nationally-reminding governments, elected officials, corporations, foundations, the press, and anyone who would listen- about the role of child care as a vital component of the educational, economic, and social structure of communities.

Patty’s work in the child care field will impact generations of children and families to come as the people that she worked with, who heard her speak, who were her friends and neighbors, and even the people she met on the bus or on the street corner were changed by the Patty magic. These individuals have taken what they learned from and were inspired by Patty to do and they’ve lifted up their voices to advocate in their circles and communities. 

Patty was the eternal advocate. Not only did she advocate for what was best for children and families but for what was best for the person right in front of her.  Although she made amazing speeches, got to meet a U.S. president and sat with Governors, Senators, Representatives and others in leadership positions, she also took time to talk one-on-one with individuals she worked with, people she met at conferences and rallies, and those she met while shopping or travelling – she always made them feel like they were the most important person in the room. 

Patty’s mission and life’s work was to speak truth to power for children, for parents and families, and for child care providers.  She epitomized the Heart of R&R as she inspired generations of R&R staff to make their work not a job but a calling.  A calling to provide parents and child care providers with information, support and training with the ultimate goal that families would be able to make informed child care choices and children would be cared for in safe, healthy child care environments by caregivers that supported their growth, encouraged their learning, and helped them thrive.

Patty’s family was always at the core of what she did.  She often said she wouldn’t have been able to do what she did without the love and support of her husband of 49 years, Sandy Siegel. She was so proud of her children and her grandchildren, Declan, Caio, Oona, and Thiago and she was actively involved in their lives.  Upon her retirement from the Network, she lovingly referred to herself as her grandchildren’s license exempt provider.  She supported her grandchildren’s preschools, participated in her grandsons elementary schools as a volunteer and supported their school activities.  She did this while also advocating at the school level and serving at the local level on the City and County’s Oversight and Advisory Committee of the Department of Children, Youth and Families.  As she nurtured, guided and reveled in her family she also created and nurtured programs and services that will have a lasting impact on generations of children.

As we remember and honor Patty and her lifelong accomplishments, we open our arms wide and welcome all who are called to work on behalf of children and families to continue with renewed passion to speak truth to power and fight with purpose and resolve for parents, child care providers and most of all, children. 

Read SF Gate article about Patty.

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Lindsey (Friedrich) Weinstein commented 2017-01-11 15:54:47 -0800
Sad to have missed Patty’s memorial last year. Sadly, I lost my Dad 4 days before Patty passed and his memorial was the same day, hence why I couldn’t make it. I worked at CCCRR network for a few years 2005 – 2008 and was so empowered by that experience. I went on to care for children as a nanny and currently work with pregnant and postpartum women. I know my work experience at CCCRR has influenced my path and now I am a mom too! Patty shared in my love of yoga and we would often ‘talk yoga’ together. She was a kind, and powerful spirit. I have thought of her through the years since I left CCCRR. Her work was and IS SO IMPORTANT and SO many families and children have benefitted because of her vision and passion. Thank you, Patty. May you rest in peace and light and in knowing you made a huge, positive impact in the world. OM SHANTI
Pauline commented 2016-09-09 16:35:30 -0700
Dear Patty: I didn’t know you well, only from afar and from all of the work you have done to create so very much for the children and families; something that once was so limited. The passion in your heart for what you have done shines. You done good kid…Now, on the wings of angels to your next grand adventure.

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Bill Locker commented 2016-01-26 11:55:26 -0800
I worked with Patty for several years on the R & R Network Board when I worked for Sierra Nevada Children’s Services. I was a single father to two young boys and Patty was always very generous and supportive. She was the consummate leader always with grace and style. I only just heard about her passing. My thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences to her family.
Dolores Gomez commented 2016-01-26 10:25:27 -0800
One of the best memories I have of Patty is when she came to visit our R&R in Colusa County. Our office is a block away from the Catholic Church, so Patty wanted to walk over and see it as this was the church that her parents were married at. We took a picture of her standing on the steps of the church. Patty was a great person and so humble. I will always remember her for her leadership and personal touch she had on everything. Rest in peace my friend.
Linnea Klee commented 2016-01-25 11:34:02 -0800
We were so proud to have Patty as our founder at Children’s Council of San Francisco and our leader at the Network. She inspired our staff and helped all of us become child care advocates!
Joyce Rupp commented 2016-01-23 11:44:06 -0800
Joyce Rupp commented 2016-01-23 11:43:38 -0800
It was with deep sadness that I learned of Patty Siegel’s passing. I first met Patty in July 1997 when the County Office of Education assumed responsibility for the Resource & Referral and Alternative Payment Programs contracts for Glenn County. I recall how welcoming and reassuring Patty was as we embarked on this new service area. She was always available to answer questions or connect you with someone who could provide answers or support. Patty’s legacy is her dedication to and advocacy for child care programs and funding. She trained, motivated, taught us about the legislative process, mentored and paved the way for staff and parents statewide to advocate for child care. She developed a range of contacts and child care friends at the State and Federal levels. Before working with Patty, I would have never imagined myself talking with Legislators at the State Capitol, taking parents and children to visit our legislators, or mounting letter writing campaigns by parents and providers in support of child care. A special memory will always be the day I visited our local Legislators’ offices with the parents of 3 young children and heard the children as they marched through the Capitol halls chanting, “Keep us learning, keep us learning”. Patty would have smiled! I had the good fortune to serve on the Network Board as Patty thoughtfully planned for and transitioned to retirement, leaving the work and organization she was passionate about. The last time I saw Patty was at the Stand for Children Day after she had retired. She was there as a volunteer and proud child care provider for her grandchildren. In Patty’s passing, the field lost its #1 advocate but her work will not be forgotten as child care continues for California’s children supported by the many advocates she nurtured and motivated. I feel fortunate to have known and worked with Patty.
Mary Ignatius commented 2016-01-22 15:13:38 -0800
I remember you thought I was a Nun before you interviewed me for the Parent Voices position because of my name. I remember the many nights we’d spend writing grant proposals and how I was basically your stenographer! I still copy and paste some of those sentences because no one could write and describe our work like you. I remember you taught me to leave a couple dollars out each night of a hotel stay because if you wait till the last night, there might be a different cleaner the other days who’ll miss out. I remember when you showed up to my house, 4-5 days after Noah was born with a six pack of Guinness because that’s what the Irish midwives would do and it might help with my milk production. I remember being able to bring my babies to work because of you. I remember when you convinced parent leaders to vote because you said the first vote you casted was for JFK. Every time I get in a cab I will think of you because you taught me to ask about their lives, if they are fathers, and how to treat everyone like a human being. There’s so much more. I’m just so grateful you were born, that we crossed paths, and that I have the privilege of carrying on your social justice work through Parent Voices. Rest in Power, Patty.
Michele Rivest commented 2016-01-19 12:32:30 -0800
I met Patty in the 70’s when lucky me the Humboldt Child Care Council where I first worked became one of the R&R agencies in the state, thanks to the negotiations and legislation Patty created under then Governor Jerry Brown. She was my mentor and guide to early education, and an incredible role model for how to be an effective advocate for children and families. While I haven’t seen Patty in years, I’ll always be grateful to her and my time in California. Thank you Patty for all you have done and those you have inspired along the way!
Tanya McMahan commented 2016-01-19 11:52:12 -0800
I am very sadden to hear of the loss of Patty Siegel. My heart and prayers go out to her family. Patty has been my anchor and mentor into the Resource & Referral world.. Patty made such an imprint on my life and career. Although Patty is no longer with us, her legacy will remain forever!

Tanya McMahan
Cara Koch commented 2016-01-14 15:27:08 -0800
I remember driving through San Francisco in 1983 (on a trip from Colorado where I live) and stopping to visit Patty to learn about the wonderful work she was doing with Bananas. She was so helpful . . .
Margie Wallen commented 2016-01-13 15:44:20 -0800
Patty was a force of nature, determination, and strength who accomplished so much for young children, families, and early care and education professionals in California and nationally over the course of her life. I was lucky to meet Patty in 2007 when I consulted with advocates in California to protect, improve and grow early childhood investments, policies, and services to improve the lives of California’s most vulnerable infants, toddlers and preschoolers. Patty was notable for nurturing younger leaders, which multiplied her impact on so many in our field. I feel grateful to have worked with Patty, a savvy, loving, strong, and extraordinary woman who touched the lives of so many. Fondly, Margie Wallen, Ounce of Prevention, Chicago, IL.
Steven Hyde commented 2016-01-12 04:18:39 -0800
The world would be better place to live if there are more people like Patty Siegel. Even those people whose applications were rejected remember how blessed they feel just because they happen to meet Patty and communicate with her for a while. What to tell about those who worked with her for a long time! If only there would be such people in the universities admission boards! I believe despite all the difficulties mentioned at http://nursingcollegeprograms.doodlekit.com/home/nursing-school-admission-essay it would be easier and pleasant for students to pass interviews and complete admission papers.
Jon Gould commented 2016-01-11 16:02:23 -0800
I first met Patty through her daughter, Tara. This was well before I had a job as a child advocate. Patty was vibrant, welcoming, and fun. She and Sandy welcomed me into her home multiple times. She was so supportive of my family and my career. I will miss her.
Fran Kipnis commented 2016-01-11 11:26:47 -0800
I worked for the R&R Network for many years as the research director. I will always be grateful to Patty for giving me my first professional job and allowing me the space to be creative in my work. Patty will continue to be a force of nature in the universe. I cannot be at the memorial service because I will be out of town, but my deepest sympathies to Patty’s family, dear friends, and everyone in the R&R family.
Christie Hendricks commented 2016-01-11 08:29:21 -0800
I had the pleasure of meeting Patty in 2003 when the Merced County Office of Education (MCOE) received the contract for the R&R. Patty was quick to take the time to come to Merced and meet with us and to share how pleased she was that MCOE was leading the work in Merced County. I will never forget her kindness and love for this wonderful work that we are all blessed to do thanks to Patty’s leadership. She was a gift to many and we will continue to move her work forward in the years to come.
Dave Edie commented 2016-01-11 07:21:09 -0800
Patty was a passionate, persistent advocate for children and families, and a pioneer for Child Care Resource and Referral. I learned a lot from her as we were building a statewide CCR&R in Wisconsin back in the 1980s. She was an original— never to be duplicated.
Linda Asato commented 2016-01-10 23:20:04 -0800
I see Patty in my mind’s eye. She is giving a speech with her right armed raised, and she’s firing up the crowd. Never have I met someone who can explain something with such clear analogies and who could bring simplicity and sharpness to complicated issues. I see her wearing her V-neck cut Parent Voices blue T-shirt talking to parents. I see her taking notes in her Moleskin composition book – colored pens, big writing. I see her in my car as we drive back form Sacramento, and of course, she gets a phone call. She’s always talking to someone. What would she do without the iphone, after discovering texting? I admire her beautiful jewelry – she’s a stylin woman, lipstick and all. I see her at Smitten with grandson Declan and we all order ice cream. Thank goodness for the park across the street so he can play on the jungle gym so of course, she pumps me for what’s going on in childcare in CA, and she never forgets to ask me about my family. So many visuals of Patty, all with vibrancy, passion, urgency in making good things happen. I will always remember Patty as a woman who lived life to the fullest, who cared so much about others, and who was almost always the strongest personality in the room if we were talking about child care. Patty will never be forgotten because her work lives on through thousands of people. Such an amazing life to be so proud of knowing.
Sally Lasselle Grigg commented 2016-01-10 22:16:51 -0800
I first met Patty just before the Yellow Garage came alive. We cleaned and painted and laughed. I had no children and loved hers. When her doctor swore on his reputation that she was going to give birth to one child, well of course she had twins. In the early years I lived down the street from Patty and Sandy, sometimes living with them between my travels. Eventually I moved north to Howard Creek Ranch and met my true love, Sonny, and made my life up here in Westport. Patty and Sandy offered their home as my home away from home. She brought joy to my heart. She was a wonderful cook, a good listener, a great public speaker, a true advocate for small children and their parents. She spent her whole life helping people. She was a great person. Not even two years ago, both Patty and Sandy were involved in plans for their “retirement”, plans filled with life. Now in a very incredibly short time they are both gone. We loved them and will miss them dearly.
Laurie True commented 2016-01-10 14:58:07 -0800
We are all so lucky that Patty fought so hard for child care for generations of Californians!


Her spunk and ferocity were inspiring and her personal warmth and joy in the work made it fun to fight along her side, even when we lost! Patty’s development of a statewide R&R network and clearinghouse of child care data and resources, and her development of a grassroots Parent Voices coalition were stellar achievements.


I’m heartbroken that she left us too soon, and will miss a long and well-deserved retirement and the chance to see her grandchildren grow…but may they take some solace in her unique spirit.


Thanks for everything you did for California’s youngest kids, Patty!


Laurie True, California WIC Association
Shannon Christian commented 2016-01-08 12:56:25 -0800
I remember Patty Siegel as the advocate and critic that couldn’t be dismissed because she was bursting with facts and first hand knowledge along with solutions that made sense. While leading the federal Child Care Bureau (representing a Republican administration), I learned from Patty and deeply admired her passion and conviction. As a California native, I was glad she was watching out for the children of our state. And although I didn’t know her personally, I can imagine how sincerely she will be missed. My heart goes out to her family, friends and colleagues. She was an amazing person.
Ryan Byars commented 2016-01-08 05:58:08 -0800
I remember going to Asilomar and getting kicked off the beach with Patty and some other folks from CCCR&RN and CCSF for making a bonfire. Patty told the park ranger it was okay because it was her party — it almost worked. She was a great advocate and mentored (maybe unknowingly) a lot of younger people around her who are doing awesome things now in part because of her influence.
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Marva Lyons commented 2016-01-07 19:33:55 -0800
Remember a Gentle Giant…..Patty was a true friend of Family Child Care, she always encouraged me to stand tall advocating for the child care field. Her work will never be forgotten. She empowered many to use their voices has the greatest tool to make change! Together we Stand! Thanks Patty!
Irene Mahasin Thomas-Jacks commented 2016-01-07 19:06:19 -0800
I would like to remember Patty Siegel for all the wonderful work she did to open doors and empower families and child care provider. Thank you for the mentors and families who continue the timeless work she helped start.

God bless her family in their time of sorrow.
Kim Schaaf commented 2016-01-07 18:19:42 -0800
Patty Siegel – A champion for all children, a pioneer in the field, a passionate and caring person, don’t get in her way! May you Rest in Peace! I will never forget you!
Rosie Kennedy commented 2016-01-07 17:47:23 -0800
What I took to heart most from Patty is that advocating for children, providers and families is nothing to be shy about and don’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Making our youngest children a state and national priority will take a lot more from the rest of us but she left us a lot to work with.
Joie Owen commented 2016-01-07 13:35:42 -0800
Approximately 16 years ago as a brand new R&R employee, I attended my first R&R conference at Asilomar where I listened to Patty for the first time talk about her passion for children and families — it was very inspiring and made a significant impact on my perception of my new job. A few weeks following the conference, I was travelling on I-5 and stopped at a gas station for snacks. I had underestimated the cost and had not brought in enough money to cover my total. I was about to run back out to the car for some change, when Patty, who was behind me in line, stepped up to the counter and paid for the remainder. She had no idea who I was, nor that I worked for an R&R. But, her small action made an impact and spoke volumes about the kind of person she was — living in the moment, aware of those around her and who might be in need, stepping up to meet a need for a complete stranger. I thanked her and left without introducing myself, but I have thought a lot about that day and the impression Patty made by “walking the talk.” Her contribution and passion were significant to the field and to a young, impressionable R&R employee. Her legacy lives on in the hearts and minds of those fortunate enough to encounter her.
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Gloria Balch commented 2016-01-07 11:43:59 -0800
I first met Patty in the early 1980’s at the Cottontail Ranch in the Malibu Canyon, for my first R&R Conference. I remember her giving a speech on the start of Resource & Referral Programs (probably the beginning of the Long & Winding Road), she spoke with such passion and conviction on the importance of R&R in the lives of children and families, that I knew at that point that this is where I wanted to be …in R&R making a difference. I worked in R&R for the past 31 years, through the good years and the challenging years. I’ve had the pleasure to work with Patty as a member of the Network’s board and have experienced first-hand her extraordinary knowledge of issues facing families and children in California and around the nation, her strength in building relationships and collaborations to improve the lives of children, and her commitment to strengthening Resource & Referral programs in the State. While I no longer work in R&R the impression Patty left upon my heart and soul is still strong, I will always in my personal/professional life strive to immolate Patty’s commitment to help improve the lives of children and their families. When I get discouraged I always think back to that first speech and my impression of Patty, of that grassroots effort, the yellow garage, the playgroups and connecting families to services, and I know that R&R is here because of Patty and that R&R will always continue to support and assist families…I find strength in my memories of Patty
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